How to Recognize Signs of Depression in Teens—and What to Do Next

Roughly 1 in 5 adolescents experience a major depressive episode by age 18, according to national surveys. Depression can be difficult to distinguish fromtypical teenage angst, but is not something that should be dismissed. Left untreated, it can interfere with academic success, social development, and physical health, and may increase the risk of suicidal ideation in some cases. Early recognition and intervention are critical to helping teens recover and thrive.
What Is Depression in Teens?
Depression in adolescents is a clinically recognized mood disorder marked by a persistent feeling of sadness, emptiness, or irritability that lasts for at least two weeks and impacts functioning across multiple areas of life.
Unlike temporary sadness, depression involves neurobiological, psychological, and environmental factors. Risk factors include:
- Genetic predisposition
- Early trauma or abuse
- Chronic stress
- Medical illnesses
- Family conflict or instability
Recent brain imaging research published in the Journal of Affective Disorders (2025) demonstrates that teens with depression show disrupted dynamic functional connectivity (dFC) between key regions of the amygdala—an emotion-processing hub—and other brain areas such as the precentral gyrus and cingulate cortex. These abnormalities suggest that teens with depression may struggle to regulate emotions due to altered brain network activity.
Signs and Symptoms of Teen Depression
Depression can manifest in diverse ways. Some signs are obvious—like persistent sadness or crying—while others may be more subtle, like low energy, changes in sleep or eating patterns, blunted affect or social/emotional withdrawal. Understanding the full symptom profile can help parents identify if their child may be struggling with depression. Depression affects one’s functioning in daily life.
Emotional Signs
- Persistent sadness or tearfulness
- Hopelessness or feelings of worthlessness
- Irritability or anger outbursts
- Excessive guilt or self-criticism
- Apathy or lack of motivation
- Low self-esteem or feelings of inadequacy
Behavioral Signs
- Withdrawal from friends or family
- Loss of interest in previously enjoyed activities
- Decline in academic performance
- Risk-taking, rebellion, or defiance
- Substance use or experimentation
- Self-harm behaviors (e.g., cutting, burning)
Physical Symptoms
- Changes in sleep (insomnia or oversleeping)
- Appetite changes and weight fluctuations
- Frequent fatigue or low energy
- Unexplained physical complaints (e.g., headaches, stomachaches)
- Neglect of hygiene or appearance
Social Changes
- Isolation or avoidance of social interactions
- Trouble maintaining friendships
- Feeling misunderstood or rejected
- Increased sensitivity to criticism
Some teens may appear to function well externally but struggle internally—this is often referred to as signs of high-functioning depression in teens.
How Depression Differs from Normal Teen Moodiness
It’s normal for teens to experience mood swings, especially in response to stress, social changes, or hormonal shifts. However, clinical depression is more intense, long-lasting, and disruptive.
Normal Moodiness
Depression
Temporary (days)
Lasts 2+ weeks
Triggered by events
May persist without clear cause
Still enjoys activities
Loses interest in hobbies/friends
Can still function in daily activities
Daily life severely impaired
If you’re unsure, see our article on teen angst vs. depression for more detailed guidance.
How to Support a Teen with Depression
Parental support plays a vital role in a teen’s recovery. Here’s how you can help:
- Validate their feelings without rushing to fix them. Ensure your child understands that their feelings are valid and important; and that they matter.
- Encourage open dialogue—ask, listen, validate, and avoid judgment
- Model healthy routines, such as taking care of yourself— including sleep, nutrition, exercise, and emotional regulation; and encourage your child that they are worth taking care of themselves too.
- Create a structured, consistent and emotionally safe, low-stress home environment, ensuring your child feels supported
- Stay connected even if your teen seems distant, ask questions on how they are doing and how they are feeling. Ensure they know you care about them and are a safe space to express their feelings
- Involve a professional—therapy can help your teen develop tools to cope with their depression.
Remember, depression is treatable, and support makes a difference.
Warning Signs of Suicide and Self-Harm in Teens
Some teens with depression may experience suicidal thoughts or engage in self-injury. Warning signs include:
- Talking or joking about death or suicide
- Writing farewell notes or giving away belongings
- Sudden calmness after a depressive period
- Self-harming (cutting, burning, etc.)
- Withdrawing completely from loved ones
If your teen shows any of these signs, seek immediate help. Contact the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline or visit the nearest emergency room. For more steps, see how to find a therapist for your teen.
When to Seek Help and Next Steps
If symptoms last more than two weeks or interfere with school, relationships, or self-care, consult a licensed mental health professional. Early intervention can prevent symptoms from worsening.
Steps to take:
- Have an open, nonjudgmental conversation with your teen
- Ask if they’ve been feeling down, overwhelmed, or hopeless
- Request a professional screening for depression
- Explore therapy options such as cognitive behavioral therapy for teens
Handspring Health offers free intake consultations with experienced child and adolescent therapists. We’re here to support your family.
Frequently Asked Questions
How can I tell if my teen is depressed or just moody?
Clinical depression is more persistent, intense, and impairing than normal moodiness. It often disrupts sleep, schoolwork, and relationships. Learn more about teen angst vs. depression.
What should I do if my teen talks about suicide or self-harm?
Stay calm, listen carefully, and do not leave them alone. Contact the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, and seek immediate professional support.
Can depression in teens go away on its own?
While some symptoms may fluctuate, clinical depression typically requires intervention. Untreated depression can worsen over time. Early professional support improves outcomes and builds lifelong coping skills.
Resources and Next Steps
Recognizing the signs of teen depression is the first step toward healing. If you suspect your teen may be struggling, trust your instincts and take action. Support, treatment, and hope are within reach.
Next steps:
- Review how to find a therapist for your teen
- Learn more about cognitive behavioral therapy for teens
- Schedule a free consultation with Handspring Health to get started.